The Making Disciples Today Blog has reflections to help you grow in your journey of missionary discipleship, reviews on recommended Catholic evangelization resources, and practical insight on how to evangelize in your daily life.
- Details
- Written by: Kristin Bird
What to Say When Someone Asks About the Ashes
We don’t presume to have the perfect response for every situation. But Ash Wednesday often opens brief, unexpected moments of encounter. What matters most is not saying everything, but responding in a way that is honest, human, and attentive to where the other person actually is.
- Details
- Written by: Burning Hearts Team
How Accompaniment Can Help You Grow This Lent
Lent can tempt us to focus on endurance: how long we can last, how well we can stick to what we’ve chosen. But growth in discipleship doesn’t happen through effort alone. It happens through relationship.
Accompaniment is the practice of walking with another person in honest attention to what God is doing. It is not about fixing one another or keeping score. It is about staying present to grace together. That kind of holy friendship – rooted in shared desire for Jesus – is at the heart of both discipleship and evangelization.
- Details
- Written by: Kristin Bird
There’s a small deck of cards I’ve kept around for years called Questions to Ask Before Giving Up.
I don’t pull it out when things are calm. I reach for it when the moment is already too full – when someone is overwhelmed, when the conversation starts looping, when another “helpful suggestion” would only make them feel more alone.
The questions themselves are simple.
They start with basic human physical needs like sleep, hunger, movement. They move on to emotional and relational needs like connection, fear, and joy. They encourage simple reflection on the story you’re telling yourself, and ask whether this is a one-off or the same wound again.
They don’t make decisions for you. They don’t fix the day.
They just slow it down.
And slowing it down is often the difference between a person staying open… or shutting down completely.
- Details
- Written by: Kristin Bird
I need you to know this: I am philosophically opposed to making the bed.
It feels pointless. I’m going to mess it up again tonight. I’ve even sent my husband articles claiming it’s healthier to let the bed “air out.”
But here’s the thing.
My husband loves a neatly made bed. He honestly believes the world would be a better place if everyone pulled up the covers each morning. Decorative pillows? Don’t get him started.
So why do I sometimes make the bed, even when every fiber of my being resists?
Not because I’ve been convinced.
Not because he argued me into it.
I do it for one reason.
Because I love him.
